Eating for Weight Loss-or-How did I gain back 3.5 pounds?
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Did somebody change the rules? Seriously. Did someone decide that eating less and moving more is no longer the key to healthy and long-term weight loss? Cuz, just as sure as I announced Friday that I had lost four pounds, I’ve gained back all but a half pound of that wonderful weight.
I was so happy last week. I even shed a tear—I was THAT happy. That was the first time in four months the scale went down. Not up, but DOWN. I had finally seen some results from all my hard work. It was beautiful.
This morning I also shed a tear. I locked myself in the bathroom and cried, I did. And snapped at Jon and yelled at my kids. Nosirreee…I’m not letting this weight issue define my mood AT ALL! I’m much too spiritually mature for that nonsense.
For what it’s worth, I did recently hear on the radio research shows a link between household clutter and obesity. And looking around my house, I’m starting to see the connection. But my house isn’t any messier than it was on Friday, so that doesn’t account for this recent fluctuation.
All that said, I did promise that I’d give you details of the plan I’m following to lose my weight. Yet,on Friday, that seemed like a much better idea than it is today.
My weight loss program is multi-faceted. It’s a combination of several fitness philosophies, as well as advice from a nutritionist, my personal trainer and a homeopathic doctor. It incorporates proper nutrition, a variety of exercises and realistic goal-setting.
In creating this plan, I’ve had to take a few things into account:
1. My body is still trying to rid itself of medication that whacked out my metabolism over the last 2.5 years.
2. I just turned 42. My body is not the same as it was, even 5 years ago.
3. My metabolism senses food and immediately packs on 3 pounds, just to mess with me.
You may be asking, why not just follow an established weight-loss program? I considered that. And for many, that may work well. I’m familiar with a lot of them and most have merit. I know many people who swear by Weight Watchers or NutriSystem, for example, with great results. But I find that with each one, there is some aspect of it with which I disagree OR there is something about it that doesn’t fit well into my lifestyle. So, I just took 25 years of fitness knowledge and created my own program. The up-side of being Fitness Friday Girl.
What I’m Eating
In this program I am not
counting calories or points (too mentally consuming)
cutting out any food groups (doesn’t work long-term)
paying someone to send pre-packaged frozen meals to me (can’t do that with a family of five)
eating processed foods or sugar substitutes (may cut calories, but they are not good for the body)
I am
drinking 72 oz of water daily
eating every 2 ½ to 4 hours (4-6 small meals daily to keep the metabolism humming)
creating meals out of a healthy carb, a healthy protein and lots of veggies (ensures I get adequate nutrition)
eating smaller portions than what I usually do (creating a calorie deficit)
cutting out my after-dinner snack (creating more of a calorie deficit)
eating whole, natural and organic foods, whenever possible (because my body needs these)
allowing myself a free meal or dessert every few days (for long-term success, I can’t deprive myself)
Here is what that looks like in real life.
Day One
1 cup coffee with flavored, non-dairy creamer (this is not something I drink all the time, but I’m on this kick right now. I usually have half and half with agave nectar)
Banana and Natural/organic peanut butter
Turkey sandwich with veggies and mustard on whole wheat
Tall soy chai tea latte
½ bbq chicken breast, rice pilaf, fresh cucumbers, cauliflower, strawberries
Day Two
Coffee w/creamer
Whole wheat bread, almond butter, grapes
Salad with veggies, left-ver chicken, left-over rice
Tea with almond milk and honey
Lowfat vanilla yogurt, ½ banana
One soy-crumbles taco, small taco salad (the guts of a second taco without shell) and a few grapes
Almonds, grapes, tea with almond milk and honey
Day Three
Smoothie—frozen berries, almond milk, flax seed, Spiru-tein powder
Coffee w/creamer
Lynn’s Paradise Café (a great local restaurant)—black beans, brown rice, chips, mango salsa
½ cup coffee with half and half
1 small box junior mints (at theater)
½ turkey sandwich, small salad
Tea, almond milk, honey
Day Four
Coffee w/ creamer
WW bread, almond butter, ½ banana, a few grapes
2 slices turkey breast, a few pieces raw cauliflower
Large soy chai tea latte and blueberry yogurt (at coffee shop)
5 chicken breast strips (breaded in corn chips and cracker, lightly fried in 1 tbsp oil), yukon gold roasted potatoes drizzled with olive oil, fresh veggies and fruit
Tea with honey and skim
Day Five
1 ½ cups coffee with creamer
½ banana and smudge of peanut butter
1 egg, 2 egg white omelet with peppers, gouda, 1 slice ww toast with thin slab butter and jelly
Q’Doba grilled veggie burrito (beans, rice, veggies, salsa, guacamole)—no tortilla, no cheese, no sour cream
Home made veggie pizza, with whole wheat crust and about ½ the cheese I’d prefer, salad
Day Six
2 cups coffee with creamer
Oatmeal, ¼ banana, 1 tsp peanut butter, flax seed, a little almond milk, honey
Handful of cheerios (to help me sustain my workout)
Can of Amy’s minestrone soup, serving of left over roasted potatoes
Apple and spoon of peanut butter
Tea with almond milk and honey
Chicken mozzarella ravioli, salad, 3 small homemade whole wheat bread sticks
Day Seven
2 cups coffee with cream
Whole wheat bread, almond butter, 3 strawberries and a sprinkle of sugar
Bowl of Kashi Cinnamon Harvest cereal and almond milk
Ravioli and salad
Smoothie (Strawberries, almond milk, almond butter, flax and Spirutein powder)
I cup mac and cheese
** My first weigh-in showing a loss of four pounds
Day eight
2 cups coffee
1 Egg 2 egg white omelet with onion, peppers, spinach, gouda, 1 slice whole wheat toast with butter and jelly
Smoothie (strawberries, water and spirutein)
2 soy hot dogs on whole wheat bread, small salad
(Went to Beth Moore conference and did not log food for dinner that night, breakfast or lunch the following day)
Day nine
Breakfast and lunch not logged
Smoothie after I returned from conference
Day ten
Cheerios with skim milk
Coffee and creamer
Q’doba mango chicken salad with guacamole (no shell, no cheese, no sour cream), handful of tortilla chips
Grande non-fat vanilla latte
Yogurt, cottage cheese, banana
Turkey sandwich on whole wheat, with lettuce and mustard
1 brownie (was baking for Elijah’s birthday and only ate ONE out of two dozen—which demonstrated an incredible amount of self-control!)
Day eleven
Coffee
Whole wheat bread, peanut butter and banana
½ turkey sandwich with tomato, peppers, lettuce, mustard, I can Amy’s split pea soup
¼ cup almonds and about 20 grapes
Japenese steak house: 1 sushi vegetable roll, 1 sushi avocado roll, salad with ginger dressing (also finished Rebekah’s salad), bowl of broth soup, green tea with sugar
Brownies warmed with ice cream on top (Elijah’s birthday)
**my second weigh-in showing an increase of 3.5 pounds.
And there you have it. Follow this and you will lose 4 pounds in a week and then gain back 3 ½ a few days later! That’s what I call progress!
Next time, I’ll give you the skinny on weight loss workouts.
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Sandy,
I've been where you are so many times. I've eaten well and exercised, but to no avail. I have yet to find an easy answer. The only advice I can give is "Don't Quit." As simple as it sounds, it is much more complex, as you well know.
Losing 0.5 lb is progress!
Lori
Sandy I'm sorry about gaining some of the weight back. I feel your pain believe me I do. I just turned 45 on the 5th and you are correct. Aging has so much to do with the slowing of our metabolism. I firmly believe this. I used to never have to worry about it either. The last 5 years or so have been a struggle for me. After a 48 pound weight loss since September of 09' I'm now trying very hard to lose the last ten. Ugh! I'm ALMOST there and it is getting frustrating to say the least. I just want it gone for good!
From what you describe it sounds like you are following the *clean eating* program by Tosca Reno. Check out her website if you haven't seen it before. I can't seem to bring myself to eat the small meals throughout the day though. Sigh.
I'm enjoying your blog! Thank you for sharing your story. I know it is hard to do. ~Melissa 🙂
You crack me up. I love the last lines: And there you have it. Follow this and you will lose 4 pounds in a week and then gain back 3 ½ a few days later! That’s what I call progress!
Hey — at least there is still the deficit! You looked that last 1/2 pound in the fast and it ran away cryin'! The other pounds will soon learn their lesson.
Hang in there, sister. I'm going through something similar though it's mainly because my eating habits haven't been what they should! I'm realizing (ever so sadly) that even though I think I exercise alot (an hour and sometimes more at least 6 times, sometimes 7 a week) and feel like I run all up and down the stairs doing chores and housework (and honestly work up a sweat most days) I can't eat everything I want in the amount I want and lose/keep it off. Curious to know in future posts how you handle vacations, how to eat at parties, or out and about for hours at a time when you have to stop somewhere quickly to eat…I find that when I'm home or nearby for most of the day or it's just a routine kind of day I tend to eat alot better but the unknown throws me off and yet I realize that is a big part of life and I need to learn how to deal! Sorry for the ramble!!
keep on keepin' on, amiga… and post that chicken, mozzerella ravioli recipe.
PS. I'm beginning to eat like you… if it helps that sounds eerily similar to my diet and I'm not losing any weight either.
Sorry about the gain. I tossed my scale out the window. I have no clue what I weigh now. Dangerous, I know. I love your sense of humor. I hope to be back on the wagon again here soon.
I love the new blog. I was on here last week and read up, but was unable to comment (I'm sure I was breaking up a child fight!).
I'm still here just not posting. My work schedule is finally slowing down a bit. We are getting ready to travel one more time before school starts next week.
If it makes you feel any better…. I've been doing P90X for the 4th time and the scales gone up 2 lbs. Not that I'm trying to lose anymore weight. I would like to stay under 125 or right on it, but I hover around 127.
Do you right in a food journal or use one of the many online ones? I've been trying to eat 5 meals a day and it's hard when you have a busy schedule. Especially when I like to eat – wait an hour – workout – weight an hour and eat again!
Your diet looks great so hang in there. Hopefully your body will kick back into gear soon!
Question for you…
I notice you are doing a lot of almond milk. I myself despise cow's milk and when I have milk in cereal or make oatmeal I use organic lite vanilla soy (Kroger brand and I love it!). So my question is this, I've heard almond milk is yummy, but when I compared the two the soy has more protein and I think only 1 more calorie per serving (*I think*), why do you use almond milk over soy? Are there other health benefits or is it just a matter of taste?
Lovin' the new blog!
Break free Sandy. Toss out the scales.
You see, I can say that, since I too have gained 10 lbs here lately and am not happy with it in the least. I've spend much of the past 3 or 4 months focusing on my weight. And truthfully, I can't pass by a mirror without checking my side view – my belly – O Goodness!
But frankly, what I pray for is deliverence.
For me, my body is and always has been my idol (it dictates what kind of mood I will be in) and I want rid of anything that hinders my walk with God. I am worn out with the worry of it all.
Please don't throw your scales at me because I love you dearly. And I understand more than you might think.
xoxo